Dear fellas!
Do you know something about the title? HAHA! Skema la plak.. So, guys, this is one of the topic that all pre-meds are going to discuss during the group discussion. But, actually, mine is substance abuse and the other one more topic is physical abuse. LOL! I love to write about this as I'll tell you what we gonna discuss later... Stay tuned! =)
But, first, let me explain to you a little bit regarding verbal abuse. Comes from the words verbal itself, it means that we abuse others with words and through writing. We do that, almost because of insatisfaction, and we want to make someone feel annoying. All that I can conclude is the verbal abuse happens whenever we make someone hurt through our words whether it is spoken or written. My friend suggest that the other name for verbal abuse is MENTALLY abuse. Yaa... I think so... =)
Commonly, how we address someone usually related to the verbal abuse. If we hate him or her, we will call the other name instead of his or her own name that seems so annoying. You get it, right? The verbal abuse can happen in a love relationship, such as coupling, marriage and also with other relationship between two persons. What I want to say here is about the fact stated that usually in a love relationship, or marriage, women are the victim for the verbal abuse, and men are the one who always abuse their wives. Is it correct?
Now, let see... me myself experienced in having a love matter with a guy. All I know is, I was the one who always nagged him whenever I thought that he did wrong towards me. BUT, what the guy did? He kept quiet till the end without saying anything. AND, lastly, he will just admitted his mistakes without defending himself. One of my friends, explain to me why they( kaum adam...) behave like that. He says that, yaa... because of their love toward the ladies, how come they hurt their beloved one...Instead to do the same like women, they prefer to admit their mistakes although they are innocent. So, this is a MAN!
A few of my friends agree with the statement, that MEN IS THE VICTIMS OF VERBAL ABUSE... =)
So how about you, fellas? Whenever I read in the novel, or through my parents itself, it is always vice versa with the fact. Yaa... maybe there are guys who abuse women verbally, as they expect that their wives are beautiful as they thought, so they let the women down by saying that she is not so pretty, and have to do the pastic surgery or anything else.... BUT, nowadays, the cases are rarely exist, as men today are more open-minded than previously, and they know how to judge a woman sincerely. Keep it up, boys! =)
Okay then... I'll leave you to think about this matter... Kokokrunch is waiting! Daa.... =))
4 comments:
great topic...
the root of the problem starts from the family. if not because of one family member say any bad words, a child won't learn about it and use them in the future as a form of verbal abuse.
the media also affects the society greatly today through shows namely wwe and whatnot. it's a shame that people still regard beating one another as a form of entertainment in the modern world today. how uncivilized!
men as the victims of verbal abuse? nahh, i don't think so. vice versa really. to top that, women also the victims of physical abuse due to the strength advantage that is belonged to most men.
yaa.. thanx!
i agreed with that... =)
it comes from the family itself... how it affects one personality..
and as we know,
personality develops from home... =)
love ze topic!! :DDD
bell!! thanx!! ngee~
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